Are you a goal setter for a goal achiever?

Are you a goal setter for a goal achiever?


hey guys mark your motivation dealer here again this morning on the morning commute and so today I want to talk about setting goals and I want to talk about more importantly you know lots of people set goals but very few of them actually break them down into pieces that can be managed and more importantly most people that set goals run into an obstacle and give up on their goals and and and just decide that those goals can’t be achieved so today I want to talk about being the gold federer vs a goal achiever and so when you when you set goals for yourself whether they be long-term goals short-term goals the goal for today a goal for this week ago for this month you have to you have to first of all break them down into bite-size chunks so that you can manage those goals especially the long-term ones but you also have to go into it knowing full well that you’re going to run into obstacles and that those obstacles are part of the challenge and you have to be vigilant about knowing that you’re going to run into these obstacles and be prepared for them when they occur so you’ve got to you’ve got to just go go for it and know that you’re going to run it to the sensei Tina good to see you I love that you’re always on here for me I appreciate you following I appreciate all you do so so goal setting is about so many things you know it’s it’s about realizing what your dream is it’s about having vision it’s about getting rid of the dream killers you know the people that have no vision themselves become vision killers the people that are satisfied with their station in life and jealous of others that have more are your biggest dream killers and you know you’ve got to get those people out of your life where you’ve got to be able to ignore those people as if they don’t exist you know lots and lots of people even in my own family although I love them even in my own family don’t understand why I do what I do and you know the truth of the matter is it doesn’t matter is that I don’t really care what other people think I know why I do what I do I know why I’m here providing value to you guys I know why I want to have a better life for myself and my family and nobody can change that so I have the grit and the tenacity to keep going and that’s what you need to have you’ve got to avoid the dream killers you’ve got to remember that everything starts with you and everything starts with your mind and everything you know any problem area of your life can be changed by changing the way you think you can’t control circumstances there are certain circumstances that are outside your control you know I can and do anything about my son but try to help them you know circumstances are what they are you know the fall precedes the winter all the time there’s nothing you can do about that you you can complain that you don’t like winter and it’s the end of fall and you can’t make winter go away there are certain things that are outside of our control but what you can control is you you can control your mind you can control the way you react to things and the way you think about things and you can either wish that winter wear incoming or you can prepare for winter you can know that it’s going to be cold you’re going to get pounded with snow you’re going to have to drive through that in your car and in your life you know you can choose to hide away for the winter and not work and not make money and not have the things that you need to live you can call it curl up into a little ball and and you know have a little heater and and hope for the best through the winter or you could prepare for winter and the the answer to almost everything that that ails you is massive action you know you take massive action on any area problem air in your life I don’t care if it’s your relationship I don’t care if it’s your finances and I’m care if it’s your business i don’t care if it’s you know family members whatever you take massive action on that and it almost can’t help but get fixed and get remedied but it all starts with you it all starts with you taking action it all starts with you changing your mindset you know lots of people talk about problems in their relationships and you know my relationship is still new but i’m happy to report everything going great so far but you know the way you fix problems in your relationship if you don’t focus on the other person’s problems we focus on you you focus on changing you focus on changing the way you’re doing things and miraculously if you start to change what you do and the way you react to him or her then believe it or not they’re going to change the way they deal with you and they’re going to change the way they react to you because they see that you’ve changed they see that you’re trying harder they see that you’re doing more they see that you care enough to change yourself and not blame the other person Harold good to see you buddy I haven’t seen Harold on here before so that’s cool Harold welcome to the morning commute if I if you haven’t been here before so you know it all starts with your mindset it all starts with you but you know again going back to the goal setting you’ve got a you’ve got to know that you’re going to run into obstacles you got to know you’re going to run into problems you know I had an issue with a business that I started and getting facebook ads approved every time i tried to get the facebook ad approved to get shot down so did I just say oh this business doesn’t work and I I can’t get facebook to prove it so forget it i’m just not going to do it no i said ah there’s something I’m doing me me not Facebook me there’s something I’m doing that’s not allowing me to achieve the kind of success I want with this business and so I’m constantly tweaking and shaping and trying to fix that I probably change that facebook add two dozen times and still there’s something in there that it doesn’t like there’s something that the algorithm is picking up on it it doesn’t like and so i’ll just keep i’ll keep working it i’ll keep pressing i’ll keep changing it but you have to understand that when you set a goal for yourself whether it’s even something like that a Facebook ad you say you’re going to spend a certain amount of money and you want to see certain results and if you don’t achieve those those results then you’ve got to tweak something and you don’t just give up you don’t just throw in the towel you say okay what do I need to do differently what do I need to do differently not Oh facebook doesn’t like this so you know what forget it it’s not to work it’s all about what can you do differently how can you think about things differently how can you change something you’re doing or you’re thinking or you’re reacting to differently and that’s how you achieve those goals and you get past those hurdles and those obstacles that’s the critical component that I wanted you to focus on today Johnny good to see you buddy johnny is our motivation dealer champion contest winner you brought the most new fans to the fan page i appreciate you Johnny so I just wanted to let you guys know that setting goals is very important you guys all know that and most people know that and still never do it you know more than ninety percent of you know people in the world don’t don’t set a goal for themselves and don’t write those goals down you might think you have a goal in mind but you’ve got to write it down you’ve got to look at it you’ve got to speak it you’ve got to make it coming you know manifest into existence but most people don’t do that and so for you to write it down is the first step but then you have to take action on it massive action is what’s going to help you achieve those goals and not letting any obstacles get in your way is what’s going to help you achieve those goals and having tenacity and having persistence and having an incredible drive is what’s going to help you get past those obstacles and help you achieve success you know I’ve ever achieved a little bit of success in this industry has achieved a lot of success in my life but you know what the bottom line is I’m still not where I want to be and for me you guys can think what you want but for me I know that it’s a foregone conclusion I’m going to get there it’s just a matter of how much time it takes me to make it so you know I’m going to take massive action on my goals and my dreams and I’m going to turn them into reality and now I’m going to show that to you to prove that it can be done so stick around you’re going to see some amazing things happening here shortly but so I hope you guys got some value from this this morning take action right those goals down don’t forget right two goals down take action on them Bulls buddy another project apex member in the house good to see you and take action on those goals and make it happen make your dreams a reality I believe in you I know that you can do this and take care I’ll see you on tomorrow’s commute filem have an awesome day